Few weeks ago, Pastor Chris’ daughter, Sharon walked down the aisle with her heartthrob Phillip Frimpong. However, it was also reported that Anita, Pastor Chris’ ex-wife missed her daughter’s wedding and it became a major topic across social media platforms as many wanted to know WHY.
While
there are so many claims on what led to the absence of the preacher’s
estranged and divorced wife at her daughter’s wedding, our source who
spoke with an insider, got Anita’s side of the gist on the entire
wedding debacle.
Here are excerpts below;
Here are excerpts below;
Tell us about yourself?
I
am a very close family member of Anita and I have been opportuned to
witness horrible treatment meted on Anita since the divorce order was
approved by a UK court. It is another example of how our society treats
women, it is total shambles. I have also read some articles on Social
media misinforming the public on the reasons why Anita did not attend
her daughter’s wedding, painting a picture that Anita is bitter about
the divorce. This is a total misrepresentation and it is unfair to let
this go unaddressed.
Why then do you you think Anita was not at her daughter’s wedding?
Since
the divorce judgement was given in favour of Anita, Chris had vowed to
make life difficult for her; as a result he ordered his daughter
(Sharon and Charlyn) to not have anything to do with her.
How
did you come to this conclusion: It is simple Chris made verbal vow
within close circles threatening this, he backed up his words by
instructing the children to cut away from their mother, he secured
accommodation for the girls in London, far away from Anita who lives in
Folkestone, Kent UK. This is to ensure the gap in interaction is wider
and also to flex his financial influence as a bait in exchange for
control over the children. It is very clear that he is desperate to
spite Anita.
So how did the children react to this?
They
are probably afraid of Chris, and also worried about hurting their
mother. However anyone who has followed Chris closely will note that he
enjoys control and would go at any length to ensure he controls
everyone around him, even if it means resorting to blackmail and
propaganda (this is the reason he obtained a restraining order from the
Family Court in the UK preventing Anita from speaking about the
marriage). On each occasion Chris is having a ministry event in the UK
or their annual IPPC, his church leaders would make headlines about
Chris and Anita reconciling their differences, just to attract a crowd
and make people believe all is well. Some other time the same mischief
makers would lie that there was no divorce.
Was Anita not involved in the wedding preparation?
No,
Chris was the event planner and he was responsible for the finest
details of the wedding, including who attends or not (note former
President Obasanjo and Pastor Benny Hinn were invited by Chris and
Anita wasn’t).
Yes, Anita never set her eyes
on her daughter’s wedding invitation, people can ask if a mother needs
to be invited to her daughter’s wedding? In this case, yes because
Chris runs a tight mafia-like organization and Anita’s security was not
guaranteed if she gatecrashed the event. There were rumours that Anita
will be embarrassed and disgraced if she ever attempted to attend
without formal invitation. Anita would have put herself in serious
danger of life if she went on that trip.
How did Sharon feel
about this whole drama? I think Sharon understands from the divorce
that her father doesn’t want her or sibling around Anita and therefore
knows the danger she would be exposing herself to if she attempted to
attend.
Did Anita attempt to make up for the miss?
Yes,
Anita was planning to have a wedding reception when Sharon and Phillip
return from Nigeria, however this was hijacked by Chris. He rallied
his members to make donations for a grand wedding reception in the UK
(this took place on 20th October at the Willows Ilford UK after the
couple returned from Maldives honeymoon vacation), who does that? Is
Chris not rich enough to fund such a reception?
How does Anita feel about this?
She
is distraught just like any real mother would! She wants to be there
on the most important events of her children, she wants to pick up her
life and move on but would they let her? No
What is the motive for granting this interview?
I
just want the world to know that Chris and his members are bent on
destroying Anita’s image and make her feel depressed. But they are
going to fail because lie may persist for a 100 years, the truth will
prevail in a single day. I hope everyone can see that Chris is painting
a picture of a saint but causing a lot of problems, breaking
relationships and making propaganda about his marriage and family.
It
should also be noted that Christ Embassy UK organised another reception
for Sharon Oyakhilome and Philip Frimpong just after their honey-noon
the couple were invited to attend another wedding reception organised by
Christ Embassy Zonal Kayode Adesina. It held at The Willows, Illord on
Saturday the 20th of October. The U.K Church-head made this arrangement
because Sharon Oyakhilome and Philip are both members of the UK church
branches and both reside in the U.K.
It was alleged
that members of the UK church congregation were encouraged to
contribute money towards the wedding reception. Although Pastor Chris
Oyakhilome was in the UK to coordinate the event, he did not attend the
reception. The Zonal and regional Pastors and their spouses, deacons,
leaders, friends of the newly-wed and the families of the groom were
present for the event.
Anita Schafer the ex-wife of
Chris Oyakhilome did not attend the Christ Embassy UK church wedding
reception, either was any member of her family present.
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